はずれる
to come undone, to be removed
The thing is outside of where it was fastened and nobody undid it. Your shirt button, which is a hazard はず of the same kind as 恥ずかしい if you are on a stage: はずれる.
外す はずす is you removing something. 外れる is it coming off, and it also does a guess missing.
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